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Your body will always change. How you feel about it is up to you.

There are so many things that change in your body as you age out of your early twenties to mid-twenties and up to your thirties. Things seem to start to go downhill from your mid-twenties. With these changes come a lot of self-criticizing. You have to find a way to accept your new realities with cellulite, chin hair and even weird moles.

We tend to find a lot of these changes unattractive as many of us do, we seek different ways of ‘fixing’ these blemishes. But when you dig deep enough and gather information, you start to realize that these things are a normal part of human existence and you end up not caring as much as you did.

These are six of some of the changes that we usually go through:

  1. Cellulite

This is going to be your reality and you have to accept that there is really nothing you can do about it. Your thighs will develop those little dimples and you have to know that you aren’t alone. A lot of women experience this and there is no reason to feel less beautiful because of them.

Cellulite are a result of the fat below your skin pressing against the tissues that surround it. This creates that wavy effect and it really isn’t connected to your weight at all. It is usually genetic.

There are things you can do to limit the amount of cellulite you have such as strength training, stretching and a few skin treatments. But none of these things will get rid of cellulite completely for you.

  1. Stretch marks

This has nothing to do with age and very little to do with weight. Some people begin to develop stretch marks in their teens and it shows up on their hips and buttocks. Losing weight does nothing to rid of you of these marks and they are just as common as cellulite. Usually, these marks appear when there is an abrupt stretching of the skin in situations such as childbirth or puberty and growth spurts.

There are treatments that can help you conceal stretch marks such as laser treatments but it can be very expensive.

  1. Spider Veins

These come in the form of blue splotches and they can be quite unnerving. You can have procedures done that help with the appearance of these veins but they all require a trip to a skin specialist. These treatments are very expensive and set you back $500 per session. They are effective but they do not prevent the appearance of new spider veins.

  1. Moles

Moles can pop up anywhere on your body and they are most annoying when they show up on the face. Most people start to experience this in their late twenties and the moles seem to multiply. Dermatologists refer to these moles as dermatosis papulose nigra and they are harmless. They are genetic and more commonly found in dark-skinned people.

The good news here is that they can be removed from your face and body. This is done by cauterizing them off.

  1. Uneven boobs

It is common amongst ladies to have one breast slightly larger than the other. Other than making your bra shopping experience a little stressful, this asymmetrical nature of breasts is normal and completely harmless.

This unevenness is mostly down to genes but changes such as fluctuations in weight can also be a factor.

  1. Facial Hair

Facial hair is not reserved for men alone. Women also tend to have facial hair sometimes. It can be quite the nuisance but they pose no threat. Your grooming sessions will just have to accommodate the occasional plucking of these renegade hairs.

Some people go for more advanced treatments like electrolysis and waxing but as you know these things come at a price. So you just might have to find a way to be comfortable with yours.

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Cleaning Your Makeup Brushes the Right Way

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I have always dreaded cleaning my makeup brushes hence I do not clean them as often as I would wish to. If you’re reading this now I am pretty certain you’re just like me. I could use the time to cater for other good stuff like shopping, logging in on Netflix or even trying out a blogger-approved cut crease. Even though I wear makeup quite often than an average lady would I try to delay cleaning those brushes for as long as I can manage?

It feels awesome having a clean and fresh squeaky beauty blender lashing on to your face, rather than having a caked on makeup on the brush from past usage. It is important to realize that cleaning your makeup brushes not only assist it to last longer but also help in the removal of germs and bacteria within.

Makeup brushes that are not properly cleaned can cause serious damages to the skin and eyes. According to a board-certified dermatologist Joel Schessinger, M.D he said ‘’Not to mention, buildup that gathers on dirty makeup brushes causes them to deteriorate quicker, affecting your makeup application”. Bobbi Brown, a makeup artist advised that makeup used around the eyes should be cleaned at least twice a month and those on the skin could be done once or twice a month.

There are two products I would like to recommend for those out there who are swamped with activities and need a fast route to cleaning these brushes. The first is Sephora Collection’s Daily Brush Cleaner ($9) or Color Switch by Vera Mona Brush Cleaner ($15). So if you’re desperate to have them cleaned at a crunch the Brush Cleaners are a life saver. I sometimes actually do combine both products to bring out optimal results.

Mind you these are only quick fixes and really doesn’t solve the problem of cleaning your makeup tools completely. For instance, it is unwise to use dry shampoo as an alternative to actually washing your hair. Thus I discovered two DIY easy methods to clean your makeup brushes pretty good. My goal is to actually make people realize it is easy enough to maintain a consistent brush cleaning habit. So let’s begin!

ANTIBACTERIAL DISH LIQUID SOAP AND OLIVE OIL COMBO

For those of you who do not want to spend a lot of money cleaning and maintaining your makeup brushes through product cleaners smile as there is a cheaper route through stuff that already is in your pantry. I love to cook good food a lot so my bottle of olive oil always come in handy. And of course, everyone should have anti-bacterial dish soap for their dishes. Without further ado let’s get into it!

  • I mixed 2/3 antibacterial dish liquid soap along with 1/3 of olive oil in a small bowl.
  • I wet all my brushes and sponges in the bathroom faucet. Dip each one into the mixture and swirl them a little.
  • I rub the brushes with my fingers to remove debris and rinse properly until all soap along with the makeup is removed.
  • All steps are repeated with my makeup sponges as well.
  • I squeeze out excess water from the brushes and dry them

I usually lay them flat on my cutting board and hold them with a strap of rubber band or two so I can dry them upside overnight to prevent dust and other particles on them. This method is easy and cost effective as I don’t have to purchase brush shampoo. I satisfied with the outcome since the dish soap is antibacterial and the olive oil helps to moisturize the brushes as well.

THE MAT METHOD

It could be scary realizing knowing you would have to clean at least a dozen of your make up brushes. Knowing you would potentially spend up to an hour in the bathroom makes the whole process unbearable. But not to worry as you could get these done through a cleaning mat. Textured mitts and mats such as the popular Sigma Beauty Express Brush Cleaning Mat ($20) is perfect break up the stubborn and oldest makeup residue without getting your hands all messy. The mat has about seven different sections/textures for all different types of brushes and sponges you may possess. The mat has suction cups at the back to prevent you from accidentally dragging a brush into the sink. This is how I use mine;

  • I wet and apply an antimicrobial oil based cleaner onto the brush
  • I do a quick swirl of the brushes on the mat
  • I rinse out all the uprooted residue with water
  • I dry them as well. Sometimes I use a blow-dryer but I wouldn’t recommend you do that often as it could dry out your bristles making it rigid and uncomfortable for makeup application.

THE VERDICT

These two methods are honestly both very effective and easy to use. But overall I think I would prefer the Mat method as it easier and faster than using soap and olive oil. The mat method may have been more expensive to acquire but it takes less than half the time dish soap and olive would take so it’s definitely worth it. However, if you’re on a budget I would definitely recommend the dish soap and olive mixture. As for the drying process, the cutting board method is most effective as it keeps the bristle’s shape and texture intact. This is really important as one wouldn’t get the desired output with misshapen and bad textured brushes. I only use the blow-dryer only at crunch times and in need of the brushes ASAP.

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Is Your Skin Freaking Out From Retinol? Here Is What You Need To Do

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Retinol is regarded as one of the leading skin care products out there amongst dermatologists and beauty experts and editors. Retinol is often referred to as a skincare superhero as it does everything from dark spots to acne. It is indeed a powerful stuff to apply on the skin hence usually, during the first few weeks of use you might experience a reddish face, dried out skin or even peeling. However it is completely natural as your skin is only trying to adjust to the retinol (retinization) but hey, it sucks!

According to dermatologist Rita Linkner, M.D. she stated that “Retinoid causes skin cells to turn over at a faster rate, decrease oil production, and help skin exfoliate” Within six to eight weeks, it clears up and stops acne, lighten hyperpigmentation as well as reducing fine lines like wrinkles and stretch marks until they disappear. Prescription retinoids are really powerful stuff compared to over-the-counter retinoids. So you do not have to visit a dermatologist if you’re having mild skin complication. If however, it persists then seeing a dermatologist for a prescription would be appropriate. Prescription retinoids like Retin-A or tretinoin on your skin is likely to get sensitive and irritated as it tries to adjust to the mechanism of the retinol in action. As for over-the-counter retinol it causes lighter skin reactions as they are formulated to be gentler than the prescribed retinol.

Reactions might last for two week to even a month as your builds up to tolerate it.  Sometimes it might feel like hell but with the right amount of patience cool tips and tricks the gold mine awaits you. So don’t give too soon. Below are six tips and tricks if you plan or already using retinol;

PREP YOUR SKIN BEFORE BEGINNING TO USE RETINOL

Just like you heading to a big test or interview you need to prepare yourself for it. The same thing goes to do just that to your skin before you begin to apply retinol on it. What better way is there to prepare your skin for retinol usage other than moisturizing it? Yes, moisturized skin gives a protection barrier for anything you plan to throw at it. According to Ava Shambam, M.D., starting regimented moisturization routine, morning and night, at least a week before you begin to use retinol is key as it prepares the skin for it.

APPLYING MOISTURIZER BEFORE YOUR RETINOL AT NIGHT

It is important to apply moisturizers before applying retinol at night to manage the harshness of it as your muscles are usually more relaxed at night. There are great recommended moisturizing cream out there such Neutrogena Hydro Boost Hyaluronic Acid Gel Face Moisturizer ($16)and Avene Skin Recovery Cream ($25). These are recommended because they have in the hyaluronic acid, antioxidants, ceramides and redness relieving peptides which are essential to reduce the harshness of retinol.

DO NOT APPLY RETINOL EVERY DAY AT FIRST

Retinol isn’t something you start off applying every day. Just like exercise you begin with the easy routine as you build your way up to the complex ones. The same thing goes for retinol usage like I mentioned early retinol is a pretty powerful stuff you should introduce it to your skin gradually then work your way up. Start off by applying maybe twice a week then gradually add a day to it until you build up a tolerance for daily use. However, if your skin has an adverse reaction, take a break from it for a couple of days.

CHANGE UP YOUR SKIN CARE ROUTINE

Your skin gets sensitive during the first week or two to retinol use. That means you your cleaning and exfoliating routine should change. Naturally, using retinol will exfoliate the skin so there’s no reason to embark on any manual exfoliating yourself. It is unwise to apply any other skin care products along with retinol as they can be too harsh on your skin during retinization. According to Shambam “Using a gentle detergent cleanser will allow some natural oils to remain on the skin, reducing the likelihood of developing the irritant dermatitis

TREAT DRY PATCHES WITH EXTRA MOISTURIZER

One is for sure, using retinol will cause dry patches and peeling. Unless your retinol isn’t doing its job it is bound to happen. To help with the flakiness or cracked up skin during the day it is recommended to use aloe gel or 1 Percent Hydrocortisone Cream ($9) for the irritation.

VISIT THE DERMATOLOGIST WHEN NECESSARY

Yes, redness, peeling and itchiness are expected, but you begin to experience extreme reactions do not persevere instead stop usage and visit a doctor for professional examination. Green says “If the skin starts to crack and you have open lesions which are oozing, you should definitely stop using the product and see your dermatologist. Also, if you develop a rash, this could mean you are having an allergic reaction to the product

Note that the skin around the eyes is extremely sensitive hence you shouldn’t risk applying retinol at the upper eyelids to prevent it from trickling down to your eyes. It is necessary to protect the entire region of the eye with thick moisturizers before applying retinol on the rest of the face

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Lucy Hale’s Best Beauty Products

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Lucy Hale is the star of the new CW show Life Sentence and she is known for her loving nature. You’d expect that a celebrity of her stature would only stick to the most exclusive and fancy beauty products but Lucy has somehow found her way around the common products you can find in any drugstore. In her interview with SELF, she answers some questions and shares some of her most fancied products with us. What’s more is that these products all cost below $15.

L’Oréal Voluminous Mascara, $6

“I’ve tried every mascara under the sun, and I find this one gives me the most volume. A lot of mascaras I’ve tried dry out my lashes after a few hours, but this one doesn’t.”

Aquaphor Lip Repair Ointment, $4

“It’s just that staple lip balm. You can use it on your face, cuticles, and lips.”

  1. Neutrogena Face Wipes, $5.

“I’ve been using these for as long as I can remember. I keep them in my purse and my gym bag. I even leave them on my bedside table, so I can take my makeup off before bed when I’m being too lazy to go and wash my face.”

  1. Degree Ultra Clear Black and White Deodorant, $4.

“I like it because it doesn’t leave stains or ruin clothes, so I can wear my favorite items again and again.”

  1. Essie Nail Polish in Ballet Slipper, $8

“It’s my go-to polish. It’s such a good nude color.”

  1. Cetaphil Face Lotion, $13

“I have really sensitive skin, and Cetaphil moisturizes really well without making me break out.”

  1. Kristin Ess Dry Shampoo, $14

“I swear by dry shampoo. I don’t like washing my hair too frequently, so dry shampoo is essential to refresh my look. This one makes me feel clean, and it has this incredible but hard-to-pinpoint scent.”

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Wearing a Wig Does Not Mean I Hate my Natural Hair

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I’m not less natural if I cover my hair.

Anybody who goes natural surely loves their hair but that journey is not devoid of its own challenges like kinks and coils. A lot of the times we see a celebrity hair style we admire and try to get something like that done only to realize we’ve made a huge mistake. Sometimes you also have to deal with hair damages as a result of faulty hair hot combs.

We all turn to wigs for different reasons. It’s often weird when you wear a wig for the first time and you find yourself being very nervous. It feels like everybody knows you’ve put on fake hair. It’s always surprising when people start to commend you on your new style and you then start to grow in confidence. Before you know it, you’re hooked on wigs because they tend to free up all the time you used to spend on your hair and you now get to focus that time on other things.

A wig can also help protect your natural hair and give it time to grow and thrive without any pressure of constant styling and tweaking. Your hair being safely tucked away tends to require less trimming, combing and tugging with your coils.

There are the hardcore natural hair people who believe wearing anything other than your natural hair is a bad idea. It really shouldn’t be that deep. Wearing your natural hair is not a statement of any kind neither is wearing a wig an affront to any such statement.

The natural hair movement kicked off in the early 2000s. Women began to proudly wear their natural hair, grow out their perms and roc their afros as a symbol of black pride and beauty. It is a good thing to see and it can be a sort of political statement in itself but there should be room for roaming.

One of the attractions of keeping your natural hair is its versatility. You can decide to braid it, wear it straight, keep and afro and heck you can decide to wear it under a wig. Celebrities such as Oprah and Beyoncé have been known to wear wigs a lot of the time so you don’t have to feel bad doing the same.

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