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I know you’re busy. That’s right. If you’re anything like me, you’re always dashing from one activity to another, from one commitment to another. You hardly have time to think, let alone reflect on the valid questions that will help boost your career or take your business to the next level. However, you have a duty to yourself and those around you to find the time to  clarify your goals and purpose if you intend making any real progress.

If you’re trapped in the race or just trying to keep up with the Joneses, make it a point of duty to ask yourself these questions. In the course of a few hours , write out the answers to these questions. If you’re part of a team, you can pose these questions as a group and start a discussion around them.

Here are the 9 questions you have to be asking yourself consistently:

  1. 1. What will fuel your future growth?

Growth here could be your business  or personal life. Are you in a place that will let you grow emotionally, spiritually, or intellectually?. Where will your greatest opportunity for growth come from? What form will this growth take?

  1. 2. How do you think you need to adjust your current strategy to adapt to emerging trends such as… [fill in the blank]?

Everyone goes through changes. Different things  influence you in different ways, and you have to be prepared to tackle those changes by adjusting your goals and objectives.

  1. 3. What has been the secret of your success so far? How will what has been making you succeed change in the future?

Think of your moves which have worked well previously and analyze the possible ways they might be less effective in the future. It’s critical to understand that what has worked well in the past may not always work as expected at a future time. Therefore, reflect on ways you may have to think differently to address future goals.

“Every day, you reinvent yourself. You’re always in motion. But you decide every day: forward or backward.” – James Altucher

  1. 4. Assuming you had more money, time or resources, how best would you utilize them to reach your goals faster and better?

It’s helpful sometimes, for you to think of what you would do if you had access to more funds and resources for a project. Imagine all that you could do and achieve if you had all the time and money in the world. How would that affect your choices and your next moves?

  1. 5. Are there some activities you can stop or slow down on??

Check how you presently spend your time. Are some of your activities unproductive? Are there some activities that prevent you from getting more things done? Reflect on your habits and the people that take up your time. How can you better optimize your time?

  1. 6. What demands will you make if you were not scared of getting a “no”?

Lots of people miss out on opportunities to advance towards their goals because they were afraid of being told “no” or some other equivalent form of rejection. Rejection is part of life, and we won’t be able to completely avoid it by not acting.  Most times, the things that scare you because of the possibility of rejection is what you really ought to be doing.

  1. 7. When you think about the future of your career, your business or the project you’re working on, what excites you the most?

Frequently, we get lost in the tiny details of a daily routine we forget the initial reason we started something. Think of the reason why some things excite you and why you began following a certain path.

“What’s money? A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” – Bob Dylan

  1. 8. when you think of the future, what bothers you the most?

Most times, the one thing preventing you from achieving your goals is the anxiety that you might fail to meet expectations. Closely examine the things that worry you most and try to decipher the reasons for the worries. Most times, the worries are baseless, and you can relieve those worries by sheer force of will.

  1. 9. What are your designs for the future?

This question is one of the more challenging questions you would be asked to answer, but it is a very important one. Consider your dreams for the future, not for any particular project or business or activity, but your long-term dreams. What do you want your life to stand for? What legacy are you leaving behind?

The more detailed your responses to these questions are the more you are able to deploy an effective strategy to adjust and achieve your objectives. Take some time – say 2 to 3 hours – this month to respond to these questions in writing, and I promise you it will have a considerable impact in your life and how you think about your goals.

Which of these questions has made the deepest impression upon your life? Comment below and let us know!

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5 Reasons You Shouldn’t Feel Bad About Using Props for Yoga

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Props aren’t meant for beginners only.

There is a common misconception that experienced users have no use for props. Granted, with a lot of experience and improvement in flexibility, these props are probably unnecessary for some people but sometimes, people just let their ego get in the way of rational thinking. There is no shame in using a prop and it doesn’t take away from your skill.

More experienced yoga practitioners and instructors will tell you that using props isn’t meant for beginners alone or people who find it hard to touch their toes. There is no weakness in relying on these props for certain poses.

“Many students have a false perception that using props makes asanas [a.k.a. poses] ‘easier’ or ‘dumbs down’ a posture,” Ashleigh Sergeant, yoga instructor and head of yoga content at Gaia.com, tells SELF. “But with some basic education and a bit of practice letting go of that ego, yoga can be greatly enhanced and advanced through the use of props.”

These are a few reasons why you should consider using props:

Personalization

With props, you can make your routines unique and thus get the best out of it specifically for you. It is a form of customization. “Props allow you to tailor your practice to the specific shape and structure of your body,” Sergeant says. With this strategy, you get to achieve the alignment that best suits you rather than trying to conform to a certain standard that may not be best for you.

Better breathing and relaxation

People have carried the no pain no gain mentality into yoga and this has made us neglectful of one of the most important factors which is the breath. It is very easy to cast aside your breathing when trying to achieve a difficult pose and this is not the best for your body. Yoga instructor Jessica Mathews says: “Using props helps you breathe properly, using deep diaphragmatic breath, which activates the parasympathetic nervous system, leading to a sense of calm,”

Calms your mind

There are exercises that can help you quiet your mind to a certain extent such as the ujjayi breathing used in yoga but props can also assist you better achieve this. “They help create moments of steadiness where you can be present and aware in your body, calming the chatter and distractions in the mind,” Matthews says. With props, you get to achieve a balanced pose and you don’t have to worry about falling at any point thus achieving a peaceful state of mind.

Permutations made easier

There are various permutations that can be made to different poses when you make use of props. For instance, you can achieve a certain variation of the bridge or camel pose when you squeeze a block between your legs. Props also make it easier to progress gradually through more advanced techniques.

Room for Improvements

With props, you are going to get a lot more feedback on how your body responds to different positions as you move in space. This can help you be more aware of your muscle imbalances and better help you understand your body workings. With this feedback, you can make adjustments to compensate for any issues you might have noticed.

Make a decision on whether you need props and if they will improve your poses. “Props open up more pathways to explore your practice, so notice the sensory feedback you receive (with and without props),” Sergeant says

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Why You Must Stick with Savasana

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This seemingly inactive aspect of yoga is perhaps the most important.

It is always wonderful to see yoga practitioners settle into the restorative Savasana posture after an intense yoga class. It is equally frustrating to see people completely ignore this aspect of yoga.

This pose is also knowns as the corpse pose and mainly you just have to lay on your back, face up, eyes closed with your arms by your side and legs stretched out. You’re required to lay completely still and quiet your mind focusing on yourself and embracing all of the sensations of your body. Easier said than done though. Some people appreciate this pose as that opportunity to get a little meditation done and others simply can’t wait to leave as quickly as possible and thus skip it.

It is understandable that life is full of tasks and there is little time to waste considering all of the chores that must be done in a limited time. But since yoga is about doing what’s best for your wellbeing, it is perhaps necessary to consider taking out a little time for this practice no matter how little. A short practice is better than no practice at all.

Every time you skip this pose, you miss out on a couple of benefits that Savasana has to offer to us physically and mentally. It is a lot more than just lying down and it is indeed worth your time.

Savasana offers a rare opportunity to remove yourself from the chaos of life. This pose prepares you for the ability to remain still with a quiet mind.

“[Savasana] is a time to relax our efforts, stop ‘doing,’ and rest. Sometimes the few minutes of Savasana at the end of class is one of the only times we stop in the day for conscious rest,” Mariana Caplan, Ph.D., a psychotherapist, yoga teacher, and the author of Yoga & Psyche, tells SELF.

Savasana doesn’t have to take too much of your time, you can start small and gradually increase the time you spend doing it in increments of 30 seconds. For short spells, focus on steadying your breathing and relaxing your body. As you get more comfortable in the pose, you can start to extend the duration.

Savasana is not the easiest thing to do. It actually takes a lot of effort and that is the point. Staying still and focus is a lot of work in itself but the benefits make it worth your time.

“One of the common concerns many yoga students have expressed to me over the years is that they think they are doing it ‘wrong,’ because during Savasana they find themselves thinking about many things, or they feel restless rather than peaceful,” Caplan shares. “One of the most important things about Savasana and all yoga practice is that practice really is the goal.”

Skipping out on Savasana is basically denying your body an opportunity for an internal and emotional message. Your body will remain in an activated state and you’re denying it the rest and relaxation hat it deserves. We need to place a lot more emphasis on Savasana and the benefits are tangible even in the short term.

In the short-term, you’ll simply be able to go back into the real world a little more prepared. “[Savasana] is a moment to pause at the doorway between the yoga studio and the busy world that often awaits us just outside,” Caplan says. “In that pause, you can bring the balance, energy, insights, and awareness you experience on the mat into the world.”

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Five Steps to Positivity

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One singular piece of advice that has resonated deep within me is ‘Self Focus,’ which means focus on being the best you can possibly be. Focus on setting goals for yourself and achieving them. Focus on learning and improving yourself daily.  In today’s world, where so much negativity abounds, this advice has stayed with me. Since most of this negativity comes from your interactions with other people, I’m going to show you how you can lead a more positive life by focusing on you.

  1. Gossip Less

It’s undeniable. We all love to gossip. It’s a natural thing to do and can be harmless. But then, it’s a huge drain of our time and can lead to comparisons and even worse –  judgment. You really should try this: stop talking about some other person for a week and instead, direct all your attention to your own life. You will observe some positive effects this simple exercise has on you.

  1. Unfollow

Hey! Why are you still following that annoying old classmate and scrolling through her timeline in irritation? Do yourself a favour by untying yourself with the unfollow button. Following someone, you find infuriating on social media and getting pissed on a daily basis is a sure way to infuse your life with negativity.

  1. Gratitude Heals

Personally, I have been focusing on this recently. Whenever I feel low or a bit miserable, I compile a gratitude list – all the wonderful things in my life which I often take for granted such as my health, food on the table, a cozy bed to tuck into, etc. it might seem simple, but it has such an empowering effect.

  1. Set Goals

This is very key! There is always room for improving yourself and setting personal goals helps you focus on yourself to become a better person. The goals don’t have to be lofty, making your bed every morning, getting more exercise or getting up 20 minutes earlier in the morning are all achievable and can greatly enhance your positivity and keep you motivated.

  1. Find Time To Recharge

Finally, its essential you take time to disconnect every week, even if it’s just for a few hours. I chose Sunday as my day of total relaxation and rest. I always go to work on Monday at my best because of it. With the very busy lives, most people live these days, this might be hard to do. However, you should try to structure in some ‘me time’ in your routine, and you’ll be much better for it.

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L’Occitane New Beauty Lounge: Hidden Gem In New York

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Hello! Happy Thursday everyone! Yesterday, the beautiful people at L’Occitane kindly invited me to their brand-new Beauty Lounge for a facial – WOW! I can hardly wait to tell you all about it! Situated right inside their flagship store here in NYC, the Beauty Lounge is the first L’Occitane beauty lounge to open in the US, so as you would expect, I was super excited to go in and check it out. You all know how I love to take care of my skin and always on the alert for new ways to up my skin routine, so I was quite interested in experiencing a new type of facial and see if it will work for my skin.

But before I start gushing about the facial, I want to tell you about the beauty lounge itself. It can only be best described as a hidden gem, a cool oasis in the heart of all the madness. The store is situated in Flatiron, in the center of the city, but once inside, you will forget you are in Manhattan. The ambience is zen-like and totally amazing – smells heavenly, with white and yellow color schemes that lift your mood and the entire place looks like something straight out of a Pinterest board. Behind the store is where the new beauty lounge is, and that is where the fun begins.

I went for the ‘Classic facial’ out of a few facial options available. This particular facial is all about gentle exfoliation, improving circulation and hydrating the skin. As you might all know,  I’m about flying out to LA tomorrow for Coachella, and the treatment timing couldn’t have been better as flying adversely affects my skin. This therapy lasted for 60 minutes and is sold for $104. And truly, I cannot recommend it enough. If you are searching for a relaxing facial which will leave your skin glowing, then you just have to try this!. It even comes with a face, neck and shoulder massage which is utterly delicious

If you happen to be short on time, you can make use of your lunch hour to do an ‘express option’ which is about 30 minutes long and priced at $59. On the other hand, if you want your face pampered for longer, they have the ‘Signature Divine Facial’ which is 90 minutes long and sells for $159.

Each treatment is designed for your particular skin type, and afterwards, they will let you in on what was exactly used which is a great way to discover the perfect treatment for your skin. I was quite in my element since I love to learn about new skincare treatment procedures. You ought to have a good look at this if you plan on giving yourself a treat soon. You can thank me later.

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